New moon spread - 2nd of August 2016

  Hello lovlies, 

How are you guys, and I can't believe it is August already and the fall is almost here although we still have few sunny days before autumn storms comes :) All of the seasons has its charm, but my favorite is the fall. Nothing better to hear the storm outside with a good fire in the fireplace, candlelights and maybe you have a good cup of tea/coffe - or drink of your choice next to you.But hey let us enjoy late summer/early fall so far :)

I bring you the new moon reading today and the cards I use is the Book of shadows - So Below by Barbara Moore and the artwork is done by Sabrina Ariganello and Alessia Pastorello (copyrighted by Lo Scarabeo)

 

It is time to prioritze yourself! What do I want to do with my life? Where do I want to go? What is the right thing for me right now? You are not selfish if you think of yourself - Maybe it is time for you to start to think of yourself. Have you danced to other people's flute far too long? No one will thank you when you are gone anyway. Please remember that the most important person in your life is youself. Selfishness can also be a good thing! 

If you rather sink into the bath tub with candlelights, drink of your choice and a real good book than help friend of a friend that you haven't met because you are the only one that can  help? Don't feel bad if you would like to have quality time with yourself. Make yourself the star of your life.

 What you can do to get out of this funk? You have the tools and knowledge to do something about it - the question is: do you dare? I know it is more comfortable to stay in the situastion you are in because it is safe and this is what you know. You need to focus on what it is you want/need. It also might be fustrating on what to do first because it seems to be alot of work. Take the situation you are in and take it apart like an onion - layer by layer - ask yourself on each layer: do I want this in my life? Is this important to me? Does it serve me any good?

You might feel that there is few obsticles/clutter in the way. You have to let out some of the old that something new can come in. I can be you have found your dream job, but that means you have to leave your old job and move to another town/even another country... Are you willing to do these sacrifices? Are you in a realtionship with a person that gives you nothing - Are you in this relationship beacause you are afraid to hurt that other person, you are afraid to be on your own or you feel you owe the other person that? 

Like I said you need to be the star in your own life - you need and most defently deserve to be happy - for you to do so you need to stop to dancing after other people's flute.

If you have a friend that you feel it is a chore to to keep in touch and the friendship doesn't give you anything anymore - do the grown up way and say we have grown of apart and this friendship don't give us what we need anymore.. it is not your fault or my fault - it is what it is.

The advice for you is that you always have a choice and you have to do what makes you and your closest family happy. It is important to follow your heart.

you may have to take a decision about work - you have analyze pro's and cons, love matters - a new love or rebonding witha an old love, finances - please don't lose track even if you are head over heels in love, health issues - you will get the right person to help you wether it is the doctor, nurse or a healer or spirituality - you can benefit from working with the right person and please don't trust blindly on what is said and don't follow blindly.



Blesses

Susann

P.s
During this spread I have pointed out few situations, but I know that are more serious matters in this world than I have mentioned like domestic violence and such (Topics like these is way over my head). I haven't covered such topics because I don't know how I shall cover it 100 %.. All I can say is that my heart goes out for you, I hope you can manage to take the necessary steps to get out it and mostly that you succeed.